Hi Jude, I have been in a relationship now with my boyfriend for almost four years. He has a terrible temper and snaps at any trivial problem such as no reception on his phone and will then throw things at the wall and raise his hand at me and tell...

Hi Vic, I'm in a bit of a minefield here. I'm 47 yrs old and I'm reaching out for help before this problem gets further out of control. I get angry easily and for pathetic reasons, and though I've never hit my partner, it has been close several times.