What if they get angry
Don't take it personally.
Victims and perpetrators can feel a lot of shame. It's not easy to admit that you are living with violence whether you are being violent or it's being done to you.
Back off but let them know you are there if they need you.
Do what you can to find out more about family violence. There's lots of information in our free resources, and online.
Family violence myths
Read some of the myths about family violence.