I was in the supermarket and observed some really abusive behaviour, threats and suchlike. I felt uncomfortable along with everyone else who was watching but nobody did anything and I didn't know what to do. Is It ok to get involved and how would you approach this situation? My kids were scared and upset.

But am I becoming an abuser?

I need help.

For years I have carried anger and unrest within myself that I don't understand, nor do I know what it is or how to get rid of it.

This is a question/situation from the other side of the fence (literally).

I need to get it under control.

I just want what's best for my baby.

I would like your advice please on how to assist my brother in law and father, to stop the violence and ease back on the drugs in my sister's home.

I watched you on TV and I must say you have made me look at a problem I have in different eyes.

My violence isn't physical, it's verbal, emotional, and I need help to learn to control it.